My nature has more to do with intimate connection, in all forms. Love is a fairly simplistic way to refer to it.

[ But it does make it easier, because otherwise explaining his nature takes more time than he's usually willing to give. Not that Ahad expects her to remember this once sober. ]

As for the rest of it...live only with what you desire. Fight against anyone who would force their "unbridled lusts" on the women around them.