The demand on a woman to produce an heir is the same. That's why it feels like it's culturally correct to you. It's about making the demand of a woman for her body to produce something.
While you're ensuring you have power in this situation, you're only entering a cycle of sexual abuse in order to claim that power. It's better to be with someone you love and respect and who isn't duped into being with you to produce an heir because society demands it of you. You're fourteen. You have a lot of time to find someone to be with, and it won't just be because your cookies smell delicious.
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While you're ensuring you have power in this situation, you're only entering a cycle of sexual abuse in order to claim that power. It's better to be with someone you love and respect and who isn't duped into being with you to produce an heir because society demands it of you. You're fourteen. You have a lot of time to find someone to be with, and it won't just be because your cookies smell delicious.